Five Language of Love

Once upon a time, there was a father who works in a multinational company as vice president for finance. He works almost 24 hours a day 7 days a week ergo, he doesn't have time with his children nor his wife. His children were complaining that their father loves his job that his own children because he puts more of his time than his own family. One time, his eldest son runaway to their home and promised that he will never return to a fatherless home.

But his father thought “I gave everything they needed, what else do they need”

What a tragic story isnt?

Love month was over. Hello March. Time flies so fast!

Sometimes, we think we already gave our best to express our love but at the end of the day, it is not what they really need, just like what the story I shared a while ago.

So,

I just want to share with you

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1995 book by Gary Chapman. It outlines five ways to express and experience love that Chapman calls "love languages"

  3. words of affirmation
  4. acts of service

It so important to know your partner's love language. So I encourage you to take test in that. :) Search the web, there are so many questionnaires to find out your love language! <3


This post not just about the five languages of love. This post really was about how blessed I am that God gave him to me. He just simply know how to make me special. I guess, he really know what my love language is. He has his own little ways to make me smile. Even if he is not trying hard to do so.

And I believe, you just need to find some one who knows you very well. Hihi.
Small things big impact

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